i have become very annoyed with this topic because i just think it seems strange for a 50 year old man to talk to people that are like 30 years younger than you are. i dont have anything against old men but when i am 19 and a 50 year old asks me to hookup with him i find that strange. there are just so many werid people out there now and u never know if they are who they say they are. so tell me what u think about this issue. i just bring this up because it has gotten worse for me over the course of 2 months.
You're young... lots of people want to sleep with young people, even older people. The way I see it age is just a number anyway (unless you're under 18 of course), and if it works for some people then it does and if it doesn't then it doesn't. There are guys out there who like sleeping with older men too, so if they don't ask then they don't know that "that guy" isn't you. I used to hate being hit on by older guys but I guess I grew out of it, besides, it's flattering I guess.
Ok as an old man I can understand what you are saying but personally I always give my age,which is 64 at the start so the person can either say they dont want to go on or they do. What really gets me is the young people who automatically think your a dirty old man or some kind of pervert. They should remember that one day they will be old too.
I think what is important is that people can learn from each other,no matter what the age difference , provided they are adult, if it becomes sexual. Selfish and aggressive persons of any age are a pain in the donkey. Someone trying to take advantage of another person is nasty, no matter what there age is.Young people who think old people are abnormal are being unfair as they will become old too.Some straight people think gay people are perverts, so we should be more tolerant, not copy there lack of charity. However this has to come from both parties,one has a right to say NO, whether we are 18 or 60.
Funny I was in the complete opposite situation. I came out 4 years ago at 41 and could not find one guy around my age to date. the only guys that were into me were in their 20s! I found it very frustrating and wound up dating someone 22 for 2 years. While it did not work out between us, my decision. I ultimately found someone 1 year my junior. I think it's timing and location, i.e. where you hang out. Take it as flattery, which I did until mister right hits your scene.
Just because you are older doesn't mean that your a pervert.Sometimes it means doing things with someone younger.And that does not neccisarilymean sex.There are many older people out there who are not ready to curl up and die. Perhaps it's a way of keeping ourselves younger, I know sometimes I have too much energy
for some of the younger people out there.They should feel good that an older person would choose to do things with them instead of that older person sitting around watching their peers die off one by one.
i totaly agree i fink its so "ewww" if u noe wot i mean the first tim i went out on the scene in leicester i was 13 yrs old and had a gr8 time but there was this old guy pervin on me all night and followed me to every pub and club i went to and then wen i copped off wiv this 17 yer old he got the arse and started givin me evils and i kida felt i had to leave erly so i left wiv dat 17 yer old and well u noe but thats not the point!
there are many older caring men who just really want company and want to talk to a younger man....in that aspect I am ok with it. but when it becomes creepy and they start asking for sexual favors and shit it is not cool. If you are the same age or older than my father it will not work. period.
Kinda yes i do .Im always getting hit on by men Older then my dad! Im like WTF! my dada would kIll me if he ever finds out. Hit on someone your own AGE!!!!!!!
BRAD
As an older member I get annoyed with young guys who think we are all weird,dirty old men. After all they will be like us in afew years time.Hopefully the same loving,caring people who preferr younger guys. After all if you were blindfolded and some one gave you a blow job would you be able to identify the mouth from a group that consisted of an 18,25,35,45 and 55 year olds.
Frankly I think you are just Ageist,what is wrong with an older guy talking to you for goodness sake?There only talking,there is no law against it not that Iam aware of any way. They may even be interesting and maybe even give you good advice as you are obviously very young and inexperienced and remember one important thing,You won't be 19 for ever you too will get older sooner than you think,what then my friend?
By the way Iam not 50 Iam 38 just for the record.