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Permalink Reply by Goofy Butt on June 5, 2009 at 3:53am

A big HOWDY back at'cha!

Coming Out is a long process. It took me a long time. I grew up in a very religious environment. I had sex with several women and was pretty good at it too. Then one day, I said to myself, "What the hell am I try to prove, and who am I kidding?"

It's difficult to believe, but it's like taking a load of bricks off your back. Living a lie can be very stressful. Maybe after you've had your first "What have I been missing?" moment, you'll rethink it.

It happened for me in the army. My straight buddy came on to me...literally, he kissed me very gently on the mouth during a sleepover at a friend's house. My head was spinning. While he was kissing me, I felt something warm and wet running down the back of my thigh. That's when I knew. I knew no woman could ever kiss me and make me feel like that.

Maybe that would make a nice thread (discussion) on here.

You come out at your own pace. It's different for everyone. By the way, there's more sex going on in the military that you could ever imagine, and I was in the service almost 50 years ago! Only now, those straight guys are up for a little reach around. MTV has made it OK. Any old port in a storm, as they say in the Navy. The difference between a straight guy and a gay guy? About 4 beers. That gives 'em an excuse. Then it's, "God, I was so drunk last night I don't remember a thing! .... Wanna hang out again next weekend?" On at least three occasions, my straight buddies made the first move. I was always terrified of rejection. If you two have been drinking and talking about sex, and there are no chicks around and he starts rubbing his crotch and talking about how horny he is, just say "Me too!" and brace yourself! He wants it. Well, that has been my experience more than a few times.

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Permalink Reply by Daniel on September 3, 2009 at 5:57am

Hey, I like to chat! =)

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