Permalink Reply by Bas on November 10, 2008 at 10:25pm
Not to be annoying, but what on earth is 'straight looking'? I think we do ourselves no favours by labelling ourselves that way. Masculine is a better word to use, in my opinion, because it leaves sexual orientation out of the equation. In terms of what I find more attractive, I would say I prefer a masculine man.
i believe you know what a straight person looks like if you dont post a discussion and i will answer you and i believe that most of my gay brothers will be happy to shed light on your face
I think it's different for everyone. It's like art. I know what I like when I see it.
I've had two long-term relationships, and neither were the most masculine guys in the world. For me, I'm a pushover for a nice smile and beautiful eyes. Everything else is just icing on the cake. These guys weren't effeminate or girly-girls, as Ahnold would call 'em. I believe when the conditions are right, no matter what he looks like, if you're both ready, it just happens. Like they say in the movie "SLEEPLESS IN SEATTLE, "It's like...magic." You'll both know. I can't explain it. It's like the curtain line in BOYS IN THE BAND, "I don't understand any of it...I never did..."
I'm Very girlish. I think I like masculininity in other guys though.
I do totally agree with mister Goofy Butt. You know you like a guy when you see him. If the time is right, something better might happen. The role of the pretty eyes is very important too! At least for me!!
Or maybe, it's just I've never met anyone nearly as girlish as me.